I really like Type. It has helped me a LOT in finding myself, developing myself, and understanding others as well as how to relate to them better on their terms.
Twitter is in a way a dream come true. I’ve always liked eavesdropping in on interesting and enlightening conversation. Now I can be that silent fly on the wall without feeling as if I’m unintentionally intruding.
ENFJ: *sends perfectly typed paragraph message that can only be interpreted how the ENFJ wants it to be interpreted*
Them: okay
ENFJ: *replies as if nothing's abnormal*
Also ENFJ: *spends hours deciphering hidden meaning of their text*
We are all learning, growing, and excelling at different paces. As we propel forward, may we avoid looking down on others, unless we are doing so to reach down and help them up.
It takes so much more energy for me to be mean than kind.
Kind is my natural response to life. If I'm not being kind, something's wrong and I probably need to vent and/or solve the issue.
I have a theory about cognitive functions. I feel like how your cognitive functions stack is directly correlative to your environmental and physical circumstances.
Example. Today I didn't get enough sleep and the coffee doesn't have enough caffeine, therefore, I am an INFJ.
Let me see you
Let me see your genuine self
You're hiding
Your mask is not
I see masks because I wore them first
I want to see you, to love you
You sweet imperfect you
Some people treat wanting validation from other others like it’s a cardinal sin. People NEED people. Some less than others, and we may show it in different ways, but it’s a fact. I no longer feel bad about it expressing that to my loved ones.
@bigmikemcneil It sure is! Although, when you as an Se/Ti dom have a hunch about something, it will normally be backed up by all sorts of useful and objective information. That type of information makes it easier to act 🙂