Fred Lang'at

This far is God.

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

MENTAL WELLNESS |

Train people that access to you is a privilege, not a public road.

Train them that patience has limit, and your boundaries are not negotiable.

Don't tolerate disrespect whether online or offline

Guard your mental frame.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Disrespectful people don't deserve your energy, attention, and value.

Don't offer your resources to people who insult you.

[Eric @amerix]

A lot of men in marriage go through painful emotional violence from their wives SILENTLY.

They can't speak out.

They suffer the lies and allegations from their wives silently without open rebuttal.

They can't defend themselves.

Because these women have convinced the world that the man is the problem.

These wives in public present themselves as victims of a bad husband, then use this victimhood as a power of terror over the husband.

In public, these women present themselves as happy souls, good, warm at heart. They are always writing joyful comments on social media, expressing themselves as gorgeous and high-energy women.

In public, or at work, they are always up and about, trying to please everyone. Trying to carve out an image of a warm-hearted person who is liked by everyone.

Nobody will agree with the man if he explains that it is the woman who is the problem in that marriage.

This is manipulation, and her target doesn't notice her strategy.

These wives have hearty laughs and rosy conversations with people, showing a picture of a woman who is so good and lovely.

Yet, back at home, she is the demon.

Silent but dangerous.

Terrorizes her husband.

The husband won't speak,

Because the woman has convinced everyone through her manipulative drama that it is the man who is not likeable.

These wives are what we call NARCISSISTIC WIVES.

These wives are CUNNING, MANIPULATIVE and CALLOUS.

We say THE DARK TRIAD PERSONALITY

• Narcissism

• Machiavellism

• Psychopathy

They are narcissistic, they have mastered the emotions of the man, which they manipulate and use to advance their terror on the man.

They use Machiavellianism as a tool for manipulating the relatives and friends of the man to portray the man as a bad man, and portray herself as the victim, when in truth, she is the perpetrator.

They are psychopathic when cornered. They can yell, scream or walk naked to prove a point or blame the man.

A lot of men live with these demons.

These are dangerous women.

They are selfish, dangerous, and they can land you in trouble because every move is about her survival, and nothing about the man or the family.

You can only discover these personality traits late in marriage, probably 15 years deep, with no return.

She uses any of her dark triad personality traits to survive through the conflicts.

Unless you make the conscious step to break free from the prison of this demon, you will suffer for good.

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@Thuranira_1 The law is very clear

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@amerix Sad_casm

[Eric @amerix]

The PRESIDENCY is SANCTUM.

It is like a shrine.

It is sacred.

The person in it (the president) is supposed to remain stainless like Ceaser's wife.

He must be beyond reproach.

He must be scarce from the public.

His appearance and utterance must be minimal and measured.

His actions must be seen only in the silent implementation of Government policies.

His silence should be loud and his actions should be silent.

His movements should be abstruse.

His wife and children should be in a hole and corner. — not influencing Government policies.

But,

A president who is readily available and publicly accessible brings shame and ignominy to the PRESIDENCY.

A president who loiters like a homeless vagabond, making pronouncements through instruments of communication disparages the sanctity of the PRESIDENCY.

The so-called demystification of the presidency has brought dishonour and disrespect to the PRESIDENCY.

The president is a mysterious image whose imagery creates SUSPENSE, HONOUR and RESPECT.

#BetterTogether

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@amerix @_fredlangat

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@paulinenjoroge Symbol of national shame and dictatorship

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 What makes the verb,do,special?

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 1.2nd
2.1st
3.Both

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 @lilianamukowa @WSaula @jpmwagithaka Noted.I thought it was a misspelling of sugar😀

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 @lilianamukowa @WSaula @jpmwagithaka Number one talks about sigar,not sugar.

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 2,5,6 & 7

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 Noted

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 Thank you very much.

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 1,4 & 5

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 1,2,3 & 6

[Fred Lang'at @_fredlangat]

@WilliceOchieng1 1,2 & 6