i am begging some of you to become ok with hearing not-so-great-things about yourself. especially if it is coming from a loved one that historically respects your agency. chances are you unknowingly crossed a boundary & someone is trying to tell you in a respectful way.
Buat yang suka volunteering, di Ubud (Bali) ada namanya Piduh Charity!
Ini sekolah untuk anak-anak berkebutuhan khusus & kamu bisa volunteer ngajar di sini
Tapi ada resto/cafe-nya juga, buat temen-temen yang mau makan! They cook the food with love!👍🏼❤️
Hello @UNICEF, Indonesian government is forcing elementary school students to join 'rallies', carried signs, and chanting slogans in support of the free meal program that has been widely opposed by the public due to its corruption and state budget hoarding. ⚠️
According to psychology, the urge to immediately fix a partner’s or friend’s distress instead of just sitting with them in it isn't empathy; it is your own low frustration tolerance. When someone you love is hurting, and you instantly jump into problem-solving mode, offering unsolicited advice or trying to find a silver lining, you are often trying to soothe your own secondary anxiety. You aren't rescuing them from their pain; you are rescuing yourself from the discomfort of witnessing a vulnerability you don't know how to hold.
I love Indonesia so much, alamnya, warga-warganya, budayanya… but this country is so fucked that I can’t help feeling like I deserve better than living here :’)
“kami mau melapor ke polisi, polisi punya dapur sppg, kami mau melapor ke TNI, TNI punya dapur sppg, kami mau melapor ke DPR, DPR pun punya dapur sppg. jadi ini jalan terakhir kami untuk mengadu, kepada konstitusilah kami berharap”
—ucap seorang guru, pendidik anak bangsa. ironi.
i will say this again and again.
aksi kamisan itu engga 'percuma' karena aksi ini adalah bukti konkrit bahwa aksi damai ga akan pernah digubris pemerintah. aksi ini ngebuka mata kita kalo emang mau didenger, harus ada tindakan LEBIH karena kalo engga ya... liat sendiri.