i swear to you when i turned 25 i felt my brain click into place. eye contact felt longer, time felt slower & simultaneously faster. memories created were more vivid. interactions were more intentional. before 25, i was just doing shit to do it. it’s a blur, i couldn’t tell you.
A girl on tik tok said “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
I just saw a few comments of ppl saying I was ugly cause I wasn’t wearing any makeup. And I really want y’all to get the help y’all need because makeup isn’t real. I’m beautiful in real life, because of who I am, not what I look like.
The older you get, the more you choose calm over chaos and distance over disrespect. Drama becomes intolerable to you and your peace becomes your ultimate priority. You start surrounding yourself with people who are good for your mental health, heart and soul.
@ashleydeadassb My therapist taught me “if you’re gonna think worst case you also have to think best case. The chance of either happening is almost zero because reality is always in the middle.” & it changed my life lmao