Jelly

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@W0rryW1tch @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Nothing ever has one simple answer. Multiple things can be true at once. This stuff is extremely complex. The op did things wrong and so did the group. But the group also did good thing as well. In order to put in the work for bpd, u have to get hurt, neither has any obligation

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@onethreemakeout Same. Like. Environment is a potential cause for bpd. Its reactions to learned behavior + other things. Its happened before and their body reacted unnaturally, therefore, they see its happening again, the body reacts the same way but quicker to prevent it with an unnatural mind

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@girlbot019 I dont think all of them are avoiding responsibility, more so trying to understand how it got from a to b. Its also common that people are panicking trying to be understood as well as miscommunications are cery common with bpd splits :( part of why its difficult on both sides

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@D3vilussy @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Everyone is responsible for their actions and how it effects people. People arnt obligated to act on that tho. I have been on both sides. I have witnessed from the sidelines. And i have also gotten myself to a better place and environment. Im not just saying words to say em

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@awarenakokoro @D3vilussy @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Absolutely. Its not ok. I am not endorsing that behavior. Nor am i blaming them for setting boundaries. Multiple things can be true at once. And that means u can do this correctly and incorrectly in the same situation. If anything. Im being more fair than others.

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@6lckswn @Finnjpeg_ @yutyful There is

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@giutarqueero Yes. But, attention seeking in this way is still mental health issue and should be taken seriously. If someone is going this far to get attention, that means something isnt right and that needs attention. It shouldnt be less important because its deemed "fake" or something

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@W0rryW1tch @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Ofc. Absolutely. taking accountability is imperative. I dont think saying they should be understanding is damaging considering i mentioned more than just understanding. Communication, education, etc. Education on a topic like this helps you know how to protect yourself and others

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@awarenakokoro @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Its not really. I can understand that but just as others have said about the poster, coddling isnt healthy. I am speaking with respect (which can be hard to tell over text i get that) i dont expect that of them. Havent said i did

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@actwrongfully @D3vilussy @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Ofc they should seek treatment. Absolutely. I never said they shouldnt

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@W0rryW1tch @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Ofc absolutely i have been on both sides of this and i advocate for everyone to get therapy even people without mental health struggles. Idk. I did my research and talked to someone who also have bpd and i was able to navigate that relationship well. In turn the same for me.

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@idontminddecay @Finnjpeg_ @yutyful Im not harassing. I havent said anything that is harassment or derogatory towards this person. I havent threatened anything or said anything defamatory either.

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@p03tism @GRAVESSHAD0W @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Yo what glasses u got???

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful This is my last reply to you. I have clearly stated multiple that both sides have done wrong, and that both sides handled this badly. You are not in a headspace to have a beneficial conversation. You are rightly upset, but you are missing things in your frustrations

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@karpuzumbrella @Rengiyuu_yume @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful No. im not.

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@Rengiyuu_yume @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Expectation is not obligation

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@Rengiyuu_yume @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@D3vilussy @Finnjpeg_ @windows7whopper @yutyful Ofc. They arnt not responsible for their health. But everyone is responsible for how actions effect other. There is just no obligation to do anything about it. We have no idea what these people did do. "Everything" is easy to say. I am putting blame on both sides

[Jelly @_jelly_clouds_]

@assaultrainbxxm As someone w/ BPD u should know its commonly not a conscious choice. And that its psychosis.