I really think some people unintentionally sabotage relationships because deep down they feel like the person is too good for them. So they create problems, become inconsistent, and eventually push that person away.
Avoidants be like:
I'll show up in your life,
text you daily, make you believe we're building something real and make you feel secure enough to actually catch feelings. 1/2
If they wanna talk to you, they will. if they wanna be with you, they will. if they wanna make things work, they will. don’t let things be one sided. it’s not healthy, and it’s not fair to you.
Amor é disposição. É flexibilizar, ceder um pouquinho, entender, amaciar, dialogar, refletir, perdoar, pedir perdão, se constranger no erro, ter vontade d fazer funcionar. Todo mundo vai errar. Ngm é perfeito. Mas ambos querem, ambos vão alinhar até funcionar. E isso é constante.
@Beluba bro everytime I do a dribble move or stepback and someone with no steal reaches it’s a pluck. You got people playing no defense just running around spamming square