@aubviouslynot seconding food delivery gift cards! also new books/games if they’re into that, something to throw themselves into as a distraction. my dad bought me breath of the wild when i was going thru a gnarly breakup and i still remember that as the kindest thing he’s ever done for me
@andreatome_@GetawayKeo wedding season (in my experience) is also INSANELY triggering. so definitely not unreasonable, but i do think we oughtta place more trust in her community. i’m sure mama swift is on top of keeping her girl healthy, as always
@vtlynch1@shanemadden@MusketballPete@formerlyrando sometimes yes, sometimes no. when it is, it can be put into remission with hard work (therapy) and the right meds. your problem seems to be with people not choosing to get/be better but plenty of depressed people fit that criteria so i’m just curious where the line is for you
@perfectlyfine89 i’m walking down the aisle to it’s nice to have a friend, first dance is forever&for always by shania twain, dance w my dad is to the best day. and our color scheme is …. all of them? but mostly spring colors!
halsey’s point was never “you have to like my album,” it was “stop treating my medical trauma like evidence of a character flaw”. she wasn't asking to be spared criticism, she was asking not to be told that speaking about her own illness and fear of dying is somehow narcissistic.
Being a woman dealing with serious health issues often means being afraid of telling the truth about the pain you’re in because you’re afraid of not being believed or seeming attention seeking. He validated that fear to thousands of women.
@Romy_Holland infant care is absolutely a specialized skill. it is only historically seen as a low value job bc women are predominantly the ones doing it
@Laurens13tv pap now and then every 3 ? i think years is the recommendation if it’s normal! and mammograms depend on if you have family history i believe
@aliciaandrz its certainly overused but i also think “my mom didn’t deserve to be treated that way” and “my mom treated me in ways that were unacceptable and i’ll have to heal from that for a long time” can coexist. experiencing trauma doesn’t excuse you from the consequences of creating it