ADHD as a mom is starting a project setting it down to go make lunch for your kids and then stumbling on the project hours later after you had already completely forgotten its entire existence. ๐
AUTISTIC masking. It's like when you're eating something you absolutely hate, but have to pretend you like it to spare the feelings of the cook. Only this time you have to do it all day every day
Jaz with ANY crinkle like wrapper to ever exist..๐ she'll run and hide with them then bring it up on the bed to chew on it at 3am to let me know she still has it to run away again. ๐ซ she LOVES it.
Dear all women,
If he hates cats, it's a red flag.
. Cats have boundaries
. Cats require permission
. Cats like to be touched affectionately but on their terms
. Cats know vibes
. Cats can never be fully domesticated
PTSD often asks the question, โHow do I feel safe again?โ CPTSD often asks a quieter and more painful question, โWho would I have been if I had always been safe?โ One searches for a way back. The other mourns a place they never had.๏ฟผ
If you were the eldest daughter who was an โabsolute pleasureโ to have in class, howโs your trifecta of anxiety, hyper-independence and burnout going??
You cannot heal in the same place where you are constantly forced to prove you are wounded. A person who keeps asking for evidence may already know the crime. They are only hoping you get tired before the verdict.