I love meeting new girlfriends. I don’t think you should ONLY have 10 year+ friends. New friends are such a breath of fresh air, a change of pace and you get to explore other sides of yourself through them.
Everybody talks about cutting ppl off but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision knowing it’s not what you wanted but what was necessary for your well-being.
Saw this quote on a tik tok and wowwwwww
“If we don't say 'yes' authentically, we say 'yes' resentfully and that leads to far more problems than if we said 'no in the first place." - Nat Lue