Ladies, I beg of you. Outsource your house chores if you can. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, anything at all. There’s no award for suffering. The term “wife material” is more of an insult than a compliment.
Soooooo many men do not leave, they make themselves and their partner miserable until they're ready to leave. That's why women file for divorce at higher rates
As someone with much older friends, you will meet men and women who would be fond of you for no sexual reason whatsoever. They’ll be generous. They’ll buy you gifts. And they’ll want nothing in return.
It’s more common than you think.
Men remarry at a higher rate than women after divorce because nothing cures their ‘depression’ like installing the next unpaid therapist/maid/emotional support system ASAP. Men are generally happier married because someone else is carrying their entire life. Women are generally happier divorced because they finally stopped drowning in someone else’s incompetence and expectations.
they mock young girls with depression, eating disorders, self harm behaviors. They demonize women with postpartum psychosis. They sexualize women with autism, adhd and bpd. But the world pretends female mental health is taken seriously..
Women's higher empathy is often perceived as controlling by men, and I find that fascinating.
Tell the toddler not to hit. He rages. Tell the grown man not to offend everyone in the room out of basic consideration for others. He rages.
Many men crave the compassion of the Mommy but never fully leave behind their resentment of the controlling Mother.
She ends up trapped on both sides of the coin. She isn't asking him to become her. She's asking him to carry some of the empathy she has long been expected to carry alone.
But he doesn't want empathy as a responsibility. He wants it as a service provided to him.
WOMAN TO WOMAN: Date sweet men. Men who are calm. Men who can communicate well. Men who are patient with you. Men who respect both you and themselves. Men who are kind to you. Men that are gentle. Men have have self control.
Cardi B continues to use her platform to advocate for the history of black African Americans to be properly taught in schools.
"They want to diminish slavery as free labour but I wasn't free labour, it inhumane, it was torture, the worst in humankind history".
Chicago Rapper, Vic Mensa defends Megan Thee Stallion from misogynistic men still blaming her for Tory Lanez's downfall:
"I feel like Megan Thee Stallion is a microcosm for misogynoir at large. Someone recently told me she can't keep trying to ruin people's lives. By getting shot? cheated on? How you ruin somebody's life by them shooting you? How could you do this to me? You ran your body directly into my bullets.
Male artists are celebrated for shooting people. On the other hand, female artists are denigrated for getting shot. Let a rapper kill somebody, they sails through the goddamn roof."