My mom always tell me that you can choose your husband but ur kids can't choose their father. Choosing a good dad for your future kids is your responsibility and it's not one that you should take lightly.
Women PLEASE and I beg you. When getting to know someone get their point of view on women/serious issues! It is so important. Don’t have children by men who are ignorant and dismissive.
People show you who they are in the beginning. Believe them. Also little red flags in the beginning mean something, they will turn into problems later on
Self reminder: Asses yourself. What are you lacking in life and is there something you can do to change this? What are you unhappy about and how can you change this? What bad habits do you have and how can you work on breaking them?
The idea of separating the artist from the art is a lie that is only brought up for negative issues, and is a perfect philosophy for looking away. It pretends as if the person and their heinous actions doesn't benefit from people pretending the artist is a separate entity.