My Wonderful, Horrible, Tour 🚐
Excited to announce I’m headed back out on the road & bringing my bro @oblereed wit me. Doing a private acoustic show/meet & greet in every city. See y’all there ❤️
Tix on sale Friday @
https://t.co/tLbkxTmFDO
healing often requires sitting in some discomfort: there are people who cannot tolerate any discomfort required to grow, and so run from any connection that challenges them to look within and address their behaviours. they want to be around people who do not hold them accountable
i quietly remove myself from situations now. i’m not over explaining myself, i’m not going back & forth, i’m not looking for closure, i’m not causing a scene, nothing. you’ll just never hear from me again. i’m done overextending myself for others.
people will maintain relationships not because it’s genuine, but because at some point they plan to use you.. and i think that’s the lamest shit ever. if i fw you you’ll know. and if i don’t you’ll know. i’m not good at hiding my hand or playing games.
whew. yeah. i literally had to learn this cause the lack of reciprocity was making me feel crazy af. people still in the likes, comments, and faces of folks who did you wrong w/o a care in the world.
I believe that being a solution based person comes from the life time trauma of being told “you got it/ you’ll be alright/ you’ll figure it out” anytime you’ve ever asked for help, or having your issues minimized or not taken seriously. So now when anybody seeks your help, you immediately start coming up with ways to fix the problem because you’ve rarely ever had anyone take the time to help figure out yours & you don’t want anybody else to feel that hopelessness.
when Jhené Aiko said you gotta lose your mind just to find your peace of mind that is so true. you really have to go through a dark time, but there is definitely light at the end of the tunnel.
Yall be with losers wondering why you not winning/yall be with winners of a game that you not in it/yall be with has beens whose rims have stopped spinning/yall be with great starts who will not finish/
My character and the way I treat people speaks volumes. So if you let hearsay confirm something you already felt about me. Or if it came from a source you trust that deeply, well then I’m just a causality 🤷🏾♀️