@pleshido_sp@Nanazille@MissveeNg@Bassayyg We’re commenting on the situation, whether it’s real or not, no one knows. We’re just having our own views, because reality is, things like that tend to happen.
@Nanazille@MissveeNg@Bassayyg This is my chat. Why should we excuse men to just “men don’t talk”? Like, umdala, you know your wife has an exam, if you didn’t have the money at that time, khuluma. Yho this pisses me off so much
There is a certain peace that comes with no longer trying to negotiate with reality. If someone wants to leave, let them. If a chapter is closing, let it close. You can grieve without begging life to remain unchanged.
I fully understand why David prayed for God to create in him a clean heart and renew a right spirit within him. Sometimes, the greatest battle is not with the people around us but with what is happening inside us. You can have a good heart and still need God to work on your attitude, your thoughts, your reactions and the things you struggle to control.
se você não aprende a se acalmar, qualquer palavra te desestabiliza. se você não aprende a se validar, qualquer rejeição te destrói. se você não aprende a se cuidar, qualquer rotina te esgota. se você não aprende a se priorizar, qualquer pessoa te manipula. no fim, não é sobre os outros, é sobre como você se percebe e se trata
Honestly, I'm okay with being the villain in your story. Because in mine, you're the narcissist who couldn't be honest, couldn't take accountability, and lacked the emotional maturity to own what you did. And that's what narcissists do. They rewrite the story, play the victim, and twist everything just to protect their image. Because being exposed is the one thing they can never survive. But the truth is. You know what really happened. I know what really happened.
You should never be expected to be the bigger person when you did not create the discomfort in the first place.
Too many people cause the chaos and cross the line, and then want you to swallow your feelings just to keep the peace. Nah, accountability matters. Being mature doesn't mean accepting disrespect or cleaning up messes you didn't create. Sometimes protecting your peace means standing firm and letting people sit in the consequences of what they caused!
Never become so desperate to keep people in your life that you start accepting disrespect as normal. Relationships, friendships, and family connections should have mutual understanding and consideration. You can love people, forgive them, and still establish boundaries when their behaviour becomes hurtful.
I pray we never get so used to peaceful days that we stop thanking God for them. Waking up without bad news, going about your routine, laughing with people you love, and sleeping without a heavy heart is a gift.
@joedonfer87@ElindaSan I live with a 41 year old avoidant. Yho 😭😭 he’d rather not talk to me for weeks on end because of something so small and becomes so nonchalant when I try to have a conversation. It’s so tiring.