I like the idea of "don't save the candles"
meaning: don't hold up your present joy, hoarding it for an unspecified future day/time when you feel ready.
burn the candles, spend time with the people you love, dance more. joy is abundant, but time is limited to feel it
after Adam Levine cheating on his wife let’s remember & normalize the fact that cheating was never about a woman’s lack of beauty, worth or anything for that matter but instead a man’s abundance of insecurities, unworthiness & desperation. don’t let men manipulate that reality