having someone who knows how to calm you, knows when your energy off, knows what you need & want, knows how to get you back on track, knows how to check you, someone who just legitimately get and know you without explanation is a blessing.
If you withdraw, shut down, or isolate when you are overwhelmed, you likely have an avoidant attachment style. When you were a child, you could’ve been left to handle intense emotions by yourself or not taught to self regulate so now you always feel you need to be alone to cope.
my biggest 🚩 is that i’ve normalised silent treatment when im not in mood for a talk. i don’t really know how to express my feelings especially when im sad and hurt. i only talk to myself in my head about how i feel all the time.
Y’all don’t get tired of being messy? Delusional? Miserable? Disloyal? Gossiping? Fake? Drama filled? I could go on.. Life is so much more PEACEFUL when you mind your OWN DAMN business. Not play sides, not gossiping the next story. So much more comes in your life when you stay in
PSAAAAAAAA‼️When you leave somebody alone and your life starts to get better. Don’t start back dealing with them. I don’t care if it’s a friend , boyfriend, girlfriend , sister , brother, cousin . When you separate from Someone and start receiving blessings and life becomes