My best friend handed me a small envelope the night before her wedding and said,
“If anything happens to me… open this.”
I opened it early. I wish I never did.
Financial maturity is being able to say:
I can afford this, but I don't need it.
I want this, but it isn't a priority.
I have money today, but I need to prepare for tomorrow.
Having money gives you options. Good judgment helps you protect them.
First off I finally lost my virginity (YAY!) bad part was though that 1. I didn't finish. Yeah. We did everything from oral to cowgirl to me fucking her to her fucking me to handy and nothing. Not an ounce of anything came out.
The Good parts:
It felt nice. She made it a comfortable experience. I also learned something about myself which is that I don't like kissing people. Yeah. I hate kissing. It's weird. So she mostly just kissed my neck and nipples.
The bad:
There was honestly nothing bad about it. It was a good time. I guess the bad part would be while we were having sex when I entered her she felt...hot?? I don't really know how to explain this. It didn't feel like anything texture wise it just felt really fuckinn warm. Which is nice but I guess Fleshlights have me thinking it would be like something else.
Worries:
I honestly worry that I could have some HIV or Aids or something.
being studied is a love language to me. knowing my faces, my silence, what drains me, what excites me, the little shit i never have to keep explaining. yeah. 🥹🤍
How long did you wait before introducing your child(ren) to someone you’re dating?
Just curious, I am a single mother and have dated 1 person (a year and a half ago) after my kids father (we separated 3 years ago). The guy i dated was a long time friend my kids knew, so he wasn’t someone new i introduced to them and they never knew him as my bf or as us dating (we kept our time separate from me and my kids time).
I’m dating someone new now and just curious on how long you waited or how long you would wait ?