Happy Convocation to me💗✨️
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4th Best Graduating Student in Cell Biology and Genetics
First Class Honours (4.62)✨️
University of Lagos (UNILAG)
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dating is crazy bc no matter how i approach it i end up traumatized. take things slow & date with intention? traumatized. be more carefree & see what happens? traumatized. stop dating at all? traumatized.
And they NEVER start off as avoidants
Because if you did, your avoidance would not hurt so much.. it’d be the status quo.
But they never start off as that way, they lure you in, trap you emotionally and start putting you through literal hell
God will take them for me 🫶🏽
Hello??
You’ll have to do the heavy lifting until I’m convinced enough to like you back.
Because I was literally minding my business. You saying you like me doesn’t automatically mean I’m going to like you back.
What is the point of starting romantic connection (often time love bombing) just to have no will to maintain or cherish it. If you’re avoidant how about avoid people instead of constantly looking for people to fill a hole in yourself that nobody but you will ever be able to fix.
my thing with avoidants is that they don’t isolate themselves from potential romantic relationships
they actively seek new people to start romantic relationships with and then chicken out
loser vibes
I was on my own.
I’m sure you didn’t like me immediately you saw me, you studied me, took your time to observe before you finally reached out.
But I’m supposed to automatically like you instantly and “put in efforts”???
Dey go abegggg
I'm sorry but if you show interest in someone that was otherwise chilling before, you're very much the one that'll do some heavy lifting before it starts being reciprocated. 😭
They were literally on their own???😭😂