Girl to girl: it’s okay to be alone, it’s okay to have a dry phone, it’s okay to be celibate, it’s okay to be selfish, it’s okay to have high standards. ✨
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. . The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
Every single one of them compared their personal gain instead of giving a broad generalization. What might have worked for them, did not work out for majority of the black community and that’s the issue they all fail to realize.
Watching that Jubilee debate with Amanda Seales was so telling.Every single black person on that stage, in some way, shifted the blame for oppression back onto Black people. Instead of addressing the systems that created and maintain inequality, the narrative became “it’s on us