Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.
Today’s affirmation:
Semoga Allah tanamkan dalam hati kita kedamaian dan ketenangan. Not easily angered by small things, not easily hurt by simple words, and not overthinking little issues. So we can live with more peace, more meaning, and true happiness 🤍
Work on your EQ. Two underrated skills that will bring you far in life;
1. Learn to give criticism without offending and to take criticism without reacting on impulse. Pause your reaction when you feel triggered, and think about how this criticism can help you grow instead.
People usually think that when siblings go to court, it must be about inheritance or land disputes. But this true story from Saudi Arabia is completely different and truly moves the heart
An elderly man named Hizam Al-Ghamdi had to stand in court against his own younger brother and they were not fighting over money but instead, each of them insisted on taking responsibility for caring for their frail, elderly mother
Hizam argued strongly that he wanted to continue caring for his mother as he had always done saying that she was his very life but his younger brother disagreed believing that Hizam himself was already old and needed res
The courtroom became emotional as both brothers pleaded before the judge for the honour of caring for their mother
Unsure of what to decide the judge brought their mother in and asked her to choose and her answer touched everyone—she said she could not choose because both of her sons were like her left and right eyes
Since the mother could not decide the judge had to rule based on reason
The court eventually granted custody to the younger brother due to his younger age and greater strength
When the decision was announced the atmosphere became sorrowful as Hizam broke down in tears
He did not cry out of fear or anger but because he felt he had "lost" the precious opportunity to continue serving his mother in her remaining days
@JamaludinSheikh
Sir, I am an ex-JPA scholar gov sent to study in Korea 10 years ago
Let me tell you how the Seoul Metropolitan Gov made their buses punctual like MRT & keep operating costs low
The secret is NOT TRYING to re-invent things, but to keep with WHAT WORKS
THIS IS A THREAD 👇
Slightly out of topic, tapi aku nak share sikit cara Islamik untuk hilangkan stress dengan tawakkal, tips daripada Sheikh Belal Assaad. Ada tiga langkah yang dia ajar. Aku sendiri dah praktik benda ni alhamdulillah so far berhasil. Hati makin tenang.
Kita tak hidup lama. Rancanglah akhirat kita sebaiknya.
Kalau susah, susah ni sekejap je. Kalau orang tak sukapun, sekejap je.
Dekat dunia kita ada pilihan. Kanan kiri depan atau belakang.
Tapi di akhirat ada 2 saja. Syurga atau neraka. Kalau tak ke syurga, kemana lagi kita?
You may have all the wealth in the world but if your heart is not there, nothing will move you to lend a helping hand. It all boils down to the heart. Is your heart in the right place?
When Allah wants you to grow. He makes you lonely, uncomfortable, anxious, tired and allows you to suffer. But He never lets you fail. He holds your hand and guides you toward what He wants you to become, then unveils His beautiful surprises for you. So, have Sabr.
Kenapa demam selalu datang waktu malam dan perlu ke makan ubat?
Pernah tak siang rasa sihat saja, tapi bila malam tiba badan tiba-tiba panas, kepala berat, menggigil sampai susah nak tidur?
Kenapa ya, demam ni macam “tunggu malam”?
Thread.
Marriage isn’t about 50:50. It’s not about 100:0 either.
Yesterday I wasn’t feeling well. Husb bought us dinner from pasar malam and fed me medicine while I was in bed. He ironed the clothes for us and the kids, did the laundry and washed the dishes.
Today, he went to bed early. Just after Isyak, he dozed off. I could see how exhausted he was. So I took care of the rest of the house chores, ironing the clothes, doing the laundry and washing the dishes.
You see, yesterday, it was 30:70. And today, it’s 70:30. The ratio is never fixed. Sometimes it’s 55:45. Sometimes it’s 60:40. Depends on day. Sometimes it even got to 43.8:56.2
Marriage is about partnership. It’s about complementing and backing each other up. You can’t define it by an exact ratio. As long as both respect each other, understand partnership and responsibility, they’ll make it, insyaAllah.
TERKINI
WARTAWAN PALESTIN PUJI MALAYSIA
Mohammad Al Sharif iaitu Wartawan Palestin memuji Malaysia dan Türkiye yang sudi menerima tawanan Palestin yang dilepaskan atau diusir Israel tanpa sebarang syarat
Sebaliknya semua Negara Negara Arab yang berjiran dengan Palestin memilih untuk menolak menerima tawanan Palestin
Ada tawanan Palestin ketika ini tinggal di Hotel di Mesir sebagai penempatan sementara sementara menunggu keputusan mengenai situasi mereka. Namun buat masa ini tiada negara sudi menerima mereka
REDFLAG bila ditawarkan kerja luar negara:
1. Destinasi/tempat kerja: KEMBOJA; atau
2. Destinasi/tempat kerja di negara lain, TAPI penerbangan perlu TRANSIT DI KEMBOJA.
INI ANTARA TAKTIK SCAMMER KERJA TERLIBAT DALAM PEMERDAGANGAN MANUSIA
Bila kerja zakat ni kerap dapat jumpa,
Pemuda usia tak sampai 30 tahun, minta kirakan zakat. Gaji dia RM22,000 sebulan.
Beberapa minit kemudian, ada sorang abang 40an datang mohon bantuan zakat. Gajinya RM1,500 dengan isteri tak bekerja dan anak 4 orang.
Dua kehidupan berbeza, tapi menggambarkan hakikat dunia sebenar. Rezeki itu benar-benar ujian serta milik Allah.
Namun indahnya Islam ini, di sebalik perbezaan begini, ada satu sistem yang menyatukan mereka iaitu zakat.
Ia bukan sekadar rukun Islam yang wajib, tapi 'jambatan penghubung' antara si kaya dan si susah. Tanpa mereka saling mengenali. Yang memberi tidak tahu siapa yang menerima, dan yang menerima tidak tahu siapa yang memberi.
Yang kaya disucikan hartanya, yang susah diringankan beban hidupnya.
Terima kasih semua pengeluar zakat. Semoga hidup anda selalu baik-baik, bertambah kaya dan berkat rezekinya, Ameen.