Being a girl is wanting to save money but also wanting your hair done, nails done, gym membership, skincare, cute outfits, and a little treat every day 😭
I had a friend who used to call me at 4am crying about her boyfriend. I’d wake up, listen, let her vent, and then go back to sleep, more than once. One night I couldn’t sleep, so I thought I’d return the favor and called her at 4am. She answered and told me she was sleeping, & I should call back tomorrow. Moral of the story: always remember that energy you give isn’t always going to be reciprocated—set your boundaries, even with “friends.”
UPDATING your partner is one of the MOST IMPORTANT things in a relationship. being BUSY is NOT a reason to disappear. it’s NOT an excuse to leave someone waiting for HOURS. if your partner is taking time to wait for your RESPONSE, the least you can do is give an UPDATE. it’s not about control. it’s about RESPECT, CONSIDERATION, and CARE. if you matter, you don’t leave them guessing
a girl on tiktok said “IN ORDER TO BE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP YOU GOTTA TALK ABOUT THE THINGS THAT BOTHER YOU... EVEN IF YOU AGREE TO DISAGREE” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.
The amount of men that cheat on their girlfriends and casually flirt with women on a daily basis is insane. We are young, if you don’t want to be in relationship then don’t. If you want to explore then do that. But don’t do it at the expense of someone else.
dating someone who understands your mental health is soo important. there’s humans who will make you feel terrible for things you can't or don't know how to control yet.
I have to marry somebody who takes holidays seriously. A family person. Birthdays, graduations, anniversaries… everything must all be celebrated fully in my household.