even if you don’t care to post photos on social media PLEASE take photos of yourself and your experiences you don’t want to have nothing to look back on
I chuckle a lil when people tell me I’m a pleasure to work with cause tbh ma’am
I’m just Pleasure. A pleasure to work with, converse with, sleep with, travel with, cry with, smoke with… to know me is to know Pleasure.
I do not handle hurt well at all and I do not like who I become when I am hurting. That’s why I really don’t like being mistreated or played with. If you aren’t genuine, don’t even bother me. Just move around.
Can we talk about the mental damage this does? The disappointment teaches you to not have expectations & to not feel those emotions of excitement out of fear of being let down, again. Your word is everything! Please stop making promises you can’t keep or don’t intend on keeping.
I don’t want my friends to feel like they’re bothering me either however I’m solution based. I can’t listen to the same situation 100 times without some movement. And I’m failing you as a friend if I’m not helping you figure out some movement.
If I told my side of the story (with receipts) I'm PRETTYYYY SUREEEEEE y'all would look at a few people differently. However, I’m perfectly fine with my side not being told. We don’t destroy images over here and I could never destroy your character to make me look better +
this is my season of showing up for myself. I’m willing to do more than I’ve ever been willing to do to get better. even if I don’t have any help, any shortcuts, any support. imma just show up for me like I’m all I got!!
i’m scared of the change happening in my life right now but i have this overwhelming sense of calm and a feeling that no matter what decision i make, everything (and i mean everything) is going to be okay.
A person will never improve their actions if they see no problem with them. Think about that before you waste years trying to change someone who GENUINELY doesn’t understand what’s wrong with their behavior or how it’s affecting you. You can’t change how someone thinks. Leave.