my therapist changed my life when he taught me there are 4 types of conversation:
1) small talk (weather, etc)
2) swapping (you tell a story, I tell a story)
3) listening (you tell a story, I listen/validate)
4) problem-solving (you tell me a story, I help solve the problem)
So bila kita nak boikot chinese tourist? Clearly they don’t have respect to Malaysia rules and customs.
You tahu tak dekat China sekarang tourist Malaysians macam kena boikot sbb kes perempuan terjerit2 haritu? To the point Malaysians kena mengaku as Indonesians supaya tak kena kecam.
Tapi China tourist buat hal berkali2 masih elok je ya keluar masuk Malaysia. Eventhough dah banyak kali locals mengadu perangai buruk dorang dekat event/tempat public.
We need to be more stern. Sampai bila orang takkan hormat kita, kalau kita sendiri yg tak tegas
After RapidKL shut us out from catching the last LRT3 train the other day at Glenmarie 2, we had to walk to Kerjaya on the no sidewalk road of Persiaran Kerjaya lol. 🤭
Not sure if this falls under JKR, Prasarana, MBSA or MBPJ. The lack of pedestrian infra is frustrating.
Hi @anthonyloke, please ask @askrapidkl@myrapidkl to stop deliberately closing the shutters EARLY at the KJ-LRT3 interchange at Glenmarie 2 Station before the last LRT3 trains have even passed!
Hating on a Malaysian who admits if he had a choice he’d prefer to live and work in his home country, but because the country is so corrupted our minimum wage is stagnant he has to work elsewhere. The people’s enemy are the rich and elite, I hope Malaysians don’t forget that.
To @lotussmalaysia , I really hope this gets your attention. (LOTUS’S SELAYANG)
Today was supposed to be a normal grocery shopping trip with my wife, who is currently 38 weeks pregnant and could give birth at any time.
Instead, it turned into one of the most humiliating experiences we’ve ever had.
After we finished paying for our groceries, this staff member stopped us right outside the cashier.
Without introducing himself or explaining the situation properly, he looked at my wife and asked:
“Akak simpan barang apa tu dalam perut?”
Imagine hearing those words directed at your wife, who is heavily pregnant.
I was shocked. I immediately asked him, “Barang apa yang wife saya curi? Siapa yang nampak?”
Instead of showing any evidence, he said they wanted my wife’s Buku Pink as proof that she was pregnant.
That wasn’t enough.
They also wanted my wife to show her stomach to prove she wasn’t hiding stolen items.
Let that sink in.
A woman who is 38 weeks pregnant was being asked to prove her pregnancy because someone thought her baby bump looked suspicious.
At that moment, I completely lost my patience.
I told them if they were accusing someone of stealing, then they needed to provide proof, produce the witness, and call the supervisor immediately.
Instead, we were made to stand there for almost 20 minutes, surrounded by other shoppers, while they tried contacting their supervisor.
My wife was already exhausted from carrying our baby, and now she had to endure public embarrassment on top of that.
When the supervisor finally arrived, I insisted that the cashier who made the accusation come forward.
When I asked her directly:
“Bila awak nampak isteri saya ambil barang?”
Her answer shocked me.
She admitted she never actually saw my wife taking anything.
Her suspicion was simply because my wife’s stomach “didn’t look like a pregnant belly” and she thought it looked like someone hiding merchandise.
So there was no witness. No evidence. No stolen item. Only an assumption.
Eventually, she apologised to my wife.
The male staff member who confronted us remained silent until I took a step forward to punch him. Only then did he apologise.
Honestly, this isn’t even about the apology anymore.
It’s about the way my wife was treated.
She is carrying our first child. She is due to deliver any day now.
Throughout this pregnancy, I’ve done everything I can to protect her, reduce her stress, and make sure she’s comfortable.
Then, in a matter of minutes, two staff members made her feel like a criminal based solely on the appearance of her pregnant belly.
No pregnant woman deserves to go through this.
No customer should be publicly accused without evidence.
If you genuinely suspect theft, follow proper procedures professionally.
Don’t make assumptions.
Don’t ask a pregnant woman to expose her stomach.
Don’t ask for her medical records to prove she’s pregnant.
And definitely don’t embarrass innocent customers in front of everyone.
I sincerely hope Lotus’s looks into this incident seriously. This isn’t just about us.
It’s about making sure no other pregnant mother has to experience the same humiliation.
Please do better.
To that guy yang confront us in the beginning, I’d say it was your lucky day because the only reason I tak tumbuk you was to avoid any violence in front of my wife.
And for you cashier lady, why kau tak jadi doktor je?
Gue kerja sampai meninggal juga gak bakal punya duit segini :)
Ternyata Indonesia tu kaya banget kan, dikorupsi sampai berjilid-jilid aja masih gak bangkrut
Growing up hearing “Wikipedia isn't a valid source” and then entering a workplace where people say “just ask ChatGPT” is a surprisingly strange timeline
From someone who did this job briefly for G**gle, natang belakang tu berat dia 18kg (not sure for Apple tho) and minimum distance need to cover was 10km per day. Gaji wise they pay like 4k per month