Anyway guys community comes at a cost. People come at a cost. Relationships are not self-sustaining entities, you need to invest your time, effort and energy into them if you want them to be worth anything.
In work emails, I often speak in plural and people assume that I mean me and the organisation. Wrong. I mean me and my symbiote. We will get on it. We will keep you updated. We are Venom.
If you truly understand life, you’ll realize not every friend has to tick every box.
Some bring wisdom, some bring laughter, some just remind you to breathe. That’s the balance. That’s the beauty.
What a privilege to be tired from the work you prayed for. What a privilege to feel overwhelmed by growth you used to dream about. What a privilege to be challenged by a life you created on purpose. What a privilege to outgrow things you used to settle for.
I can say very very mean things when I feel violated. Like if I feel like you intentionally said something to harm/trigger me, there’s a chance I will absolutely say something we can’t come back from.
Maybe for you, the "one thing" might be the toilet seat. Or shoes on the floor. Or dishes in the sink.
Whatever it is, just breathe. Fix it. Let it go.
Your peace is worth more.
Your relationship is worth more.
They are worth more.
Happy Saturday. ✨