How about parents literally teach their kids some basic manners before leaving them in hostels. Admission le kar apnay ehsaan nai kia. It just baffles me how 18-19 years of education cant teach people about using washrooms, kitchens or even walking in corridors.
Unspoken rules in healthy relationships:
You don’t have to text 24/7 but it’s great if that happens.
If you’re busy, let your partner know so they don’t feel ignored.
Your partner will trust you until you give them reason(s) to distrust you.
If your partner does something that hurt you, tell them and give them a chance to fix up.
If you fight, never have that thought that it would be the end except you want to end things. Always take time to talk things out.
Cheating is a deal breaker, even to those who think it isn’t for them.
Help and support your partner always, you don’t have to wait for them to ask.
Don’t keep too many friends and make sure your partner knows them. Build more alliances than meaningless friendships.
Put your God at the center of the relationship. It helps you commit with better understanding.
Relationships are much sweeter when you and your partner are actual FRIENDS. You turn up together, gossip together, talk honestly, have fun, and generally vibe like besties. They shouldn’t replace your original friends but it’s great when your dynamic is more than just romantic.
Maturity is when you realize having a loyal spouse is all about fate, you can love a person to death but if your spouse is a cheater he/she will definitely cheat so always ask allah s.w.t for a loyal spouse whose eyes are on you and only on you.
Avoiding conflict ruins relationships. The issues you have won’t go away. They'll only come back stronger, when you least want them to. Conflict avoidance is a trauma response deriving from a childhood in which conflict led to abuse. Heal so you can speak up and nurture intimacy.
I think good skin has a lot to do with how happy and content you are. You can use all the expensive skincare in the world but glow tou mental peace se hee aata hai.
A healthy relationship can't exist without boundaries, effort, honesty, reciprocation, respect, trust, safety, support, understanding, open communication, and a willingness to apologize and change your behavior when they tell you you did something that hurt them or upset them.
Your relationship being ‘PRIVATE’ doesn’t mean that you should move like you’re not even in a relationship! People should know you’re in one, based on how you maneuver and how you operate. The respect you have for your partner should be LOUD, even if your relationship isn’t.
Normalize gap years in studies because not everyone has the same conditions and circumstances and it's not necessary to complete education in a certain age period.Don't force kids to complete their education in this time limit.