Dating a ngga who refuses to take accountability will have you questioning your own sanity. 😭 You can tell him exactly what he did, when he did it, how it made you feel… and somehow the conversation ends with YOU explaining yourself.
Sir, I’m not interested in arguing with a man who thinks accountability is a personal attack. 😂
AT THIS GROWN ASS AGE, STOP PLAYING VICTIM TO CONSEQUENCES YOU CREATED‼️🗣️💯YOU did it. YOU set it in motion. Now the outcome came and suddenly everybody else is wrong? 😮💨That’s called CAUSE & EFFECT. You can’t keep throwing rocks and acting shocked when shit starts breaking. 🎯💯
Accountability BIG asf with me 💯 I don’t expect nobody to be perfect, but don’t do some foul sht then try to make MY reaction the bigger problem. Ngga, you started the fire then got mad cause I smelled smoke 😭 stand on what you did and quit tryna rewrite the story just because you don’t like how I responded.
I could NEVER f*ck over somebody who made sure I was straight when I was down‼️ I don’t forget who showed up when I had NOTHING to offer. Loyalty means EVERYTHING to me… unfortunately, some of y’all only understand loyalty when YOU’RE the one who needs it. 💯
Holding a man accountable ain’t hate, baby, that’s called making him stand on his shit. We not lowering the bar, babying grown men, or making excuses just to keep somebody comfortable. If your standards make him uncomfortable, he can get uncomfortable and grow, or he can get tf gone. Either way, we not negotiating our peace to accommodate nobody.
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I hate when people invalidate my reaction instead of taking responsibility for what caused it. They’ll downplay their actions, make me question whether I had a right to be upset, and somehow turn the whole situation into a problem with how I reacted.
You can only tolerate so much before that shii turn into resentment. At first you call it patience, understanding, even love… whole time you slowly betraying yourself just to keep the peace. Every boundary you let slide, every pattern you excuse & every feeling you keep swallowing adds up. Eventually that shii gotta come due… and by then, you don’t even feel the same anymore. 💯
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is someone who acts like cause and effect don't exist. Yes, your actions caused this outcome, so why are you standing there shocked and playing the victim