Your wife will silently prefer that you sleep with prostitutes than having a side chick, if you want to cheat.
Having a side chick can destroy your marriage.
You may divert the love you have for your wife & kids to her.
And you can easily have a child outside wedlock.
End.
Inviting a woman to bed, one whose hand had never been touched before, is a big deal. It takes masculine effrontery to look at her in the eye, let alone curdle her for bedding adventure. There are cases of those who did nothing with each other for days as a result of shyness. I mean they never mated.
For me, this is no shyness but cowardice. One of the things that define manhood is bravery even in the face of oppression. No matter how gigantic her Goliath is, she is apparently conquerable by your gargantuan David.
The woman would not take the lead in the opening match even if it's not her maiden experience. That's natural of them. It's the husband's duty to be a man and put the woman on track. He shouldn't be effeminate.
Dear new husband, come here, let me educate you.
First, work on your mindset. Disabuse it. She is no more a sister to you but a wife - your love mate, your bed partner - whose hand you've already legally, legitimately had in marriage. She is the would-be mother of your children, and there is no how such would happen except you play together in bed. Disabuse your mind and go for your goal, Mr Coward.
After the necessary spiritual requirements, engage her in something that will bring you close to each other. Reading a book together is a good example. Sit side-by-side or you both lie on the bed with anyone reading aloud. From there, the expected film may be acted. If that seems tasking, you may ask her to help you with something from anywhere in the house - the sitting room for instance - and she is grabbed from behind.
First impression lasts longer. The opening match should be done with appreciable skills so she doesn't have an impression that you aren't sexually good for her. Naturally, women last longer in bed than men. That's why much of foreplay is sacrosanct. Try curdling her extremely well before penetration. By this, she will reach orgasm and the experience forever imprinted in her mind.
نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّىٰ شِئْتُمْ ۖ وَقَدِّمُوا لِأَنْفُسِكُمْ...
"Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand..."
[Surat Al-Baqarah 223]
Sanni Kay Yusuf
Our Lord We believe in You
We beseech You to strengthen d weaknesses of Imaan, Knowledge, Resources, Character and Energy that cause us to fail in our duties to You, grant us Your compassion and protection, and keep us and our loved ones safe from all calamities and difficultie