I heard a therapist say, “Your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not.” She explained by saying feel what you feel BUT you need to be accountable for what you do as a result of those feelings.
calling friends out on their BS is part of being a true friend, if you can’t handle it then it’s time to part ways... simple as that. We too old for half friends.
some people truly did not deserve to know you. that’s just the facts but you learned from it. you no longer give your energy out so freely in a desperate attempt to connect. you have standards now. good for you.
The Maui fire that tore through Lahaina is one of the worst wildfire disasters in US history.
The town of 12,000 people is virtually destroyed, with at least 53 dead and many more missing. More than 1,700 structures have been destroyed, including entire neighborhoods.
Maui is in great need of outside assistance.
Imagery via @Maxar
For those who are not on Maui, it's hard to imagine the devastation.
Longtime resident, Emerson Timmins who saw the disaster in Lahaina joined KHON2 News for an interview:
It’s so important to be present in your current stage of life, i catch myself always worried about the future when i prayed to be where i am at this moment before.