Ugly Psychology truths no one wants to admit.
I worked for many years as a licensed psychotherapist, and these are some of the harshest realities that people refuse to talk about. Let’s get in some trouble.
1 retweet = 1 harsh truth, so keep the chain going.
When you meet a woman who communicates very well, you’ll have to come correct because she will hold you accountable. Women observe a lot and it reflects in the way they communicate; they will ask you many questions. They want to address everything. You must show your workings.
I want my baby born into stability. With their own everything, both parents together and always surrounded by love. It's enough children going through shit they don't deserve and didn't ask for. I'm so serious about being a good parent and a good example.👩👧
How do men(fathers and siblings) do these without getting broke ; money for eid clothes,money for sewing,money for ramadan shopping, money for eid shopping, goron sallah ,still while taking care of other expenses in the home oo ,the real superheroes!
never beat yourself up for believing people are as genuine as you think they are. even if it turns out they aren’t, your good faith in their actions is a reflection of your kind heart and how you operate. it doesn’t make you silly or naive. it makes you compassionate. ily
love yourself so deeply & genuinely that it sets the standard with the kind of love that you want to receive from people. it’s either they match it or go beyond it. but less than anything what you can give for yourself, is something not worth settling for.
I pray i’ll marry into a good family. A family that will accept me as one of them, a mother and father in law that will love, spoil and support me like their own children. A man who understand and respect me. A family filled with love is all i ask for 🤲🏻
Respect your wife, She is the woman who left her whole family to live with you, She is the woman who left her parent's, her siblings which she had been living with since the day she was born, for you, She is the woman who'll complete half of your deen,
Lets talk about POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION (Thread)
1/ Postpartum depression (PPD) affects approximately 1 in 7 new mothers, making it a common mental health issue that many women face after giving birth. Despite its prevalence sha, PPD is often misunderstood and stigmatised.
Someone asked me why her,
I answered:
She showed good character and a beautiful personality inside and out.
She was trustworthy.
She never burdened me with what I could not yet afford even when I knew she desired them.
She was humble
She believed in me when no other person did and saw prospects even I was struggling to express.
She encouraged and supported me when all the world saw was "failure".
She persevered with me through difficult family and inlaw challenges, even when she was on the receiving end of things many would have walked away from.
She showed me unwavering loyalty even when my own loyalty to her shook.
She persevered days of little finance (literally drank garri with me)
She displayed the capacity to keep getting better.
Looking back, she was and still is all the above and more, a favour of my Lord I cannot deny.
I know not all stories will go this way but hopefully this can help you still believe that it pays to be good.
Do good and leave the rest to your Lord. One day it'll all make sense.
when you marry a girl you have to replace her father who bought her everything she wanted, her mother who loved, cared and nurtured her, her brothers who made her laugh all the time, her sisters who she would go to share her problems and have someone to confide in. can u do that?
HOW WE MET
It was a sunny day sometime in 2016, I was informed to accompany senior consultant in the office to some site errands on the island. The news gave me scary imaginations of driving through the ever- overwhelming Lagos traffic as I quickly consulted the oracle