If good touches you, it distresses them; but
If harm strikes you, they rejoice at it.
And if you are patient and fear Allah,
Their plot will not harm you at all.
Indeed, Allah is encompassing of what they do.
Quran [3:120]
Some men endure insufferable hardship and emerge galvanized against harm
Others endure hardship - and collapse absolutely
The tendency to surrender is a genetic disposition amongst the weakest of a species
Don’t pity those who gave up
They were born to lose