You do not have to persuade others to help you; all you need do is believe you are what you want to be and then let the world (which is nothing more than yourself pushed out) go to work to make your assumption possible.
People will cause you pain, hurt you, put you down, make you feel bad about yourself. It’s how you react that will determine the outcome. Remember, they are powerless until you choose to empower them. Don’t give them the ammunition they need.
If you’ve managed to clean up your act so far in this blessed month, that’s really commendable. Make a commitment to never let anger, envy, hatred, malice, slander, gossip, backbiting, obscene talk, swear words and the likes from your mouth, come back into your life again.