Reality is some people just don’t align & this was my last year letting my empathy for people keep me attached to what my discernment already rejected.
Some people in your life have never seen you at your full capacity. They met you in a hard season, a transitional moment, a version of you still being built. Do not let their limited experience of you become your ceiling. You are more than the chapter they witnessed.
the most exhausting job you’ll NEVER get paid for is babysitting unhealed…adults.
always being the bigger person.
always regulating yourself while everyone else acts out.
always explaining respect, boundaries, and accountability to grown adults.
protect your peace before carrying everyone else’s healing becomes your identity.
After a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn’t do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth… just basking in your toxicity huh? Like Age should come with wisdom, and that includes being a good partner. Refusing to grow is like skipping your emotional homework and wondering why you keep flunking the relationship tests. Time to hit the books on self-improvement and grow tf up.
People love to hate a confident woman and that shit is annoying. Lounging in insecurity is THE trend and it shouldn’t be. We should be encouraging growth and self love instead of hating a woman’s confidence.
SOMETIMES WE JUST NEED TO BE REMINDED OF THESE:
• God will make a way.
• Prayer changes everything.
• God is always fighting for you.
• God has great plans for your life.
• God is in control of every situation.
• Even in the waiting, He's working.
• God removes and God replaces.
• God knows what you need; go to Him.
• Put God first and everything else will follow.
This girl literally said, “If you are short on money for something read Psalms 102. Write down what you need, put it in Psalms 102, read it and God will give you exactly what you need.”
People are happiest when they're building something.
Their physique, their business, their finances, their relationships.
People who don't work on anything meaningful will always feel empty & depressed.
Find a purpose.
The world was never meant to be a competition of appearances. It was meant to be a gallery of individuality, where every person adds their own color, texture and story.
Pray for grace. Hard work is important, but so much of life comes down to timing, favor, mercy, and doors opening that no amount of effort could force open.
Some of the most happiest and wise people spend a lot of time at home. They stay out of drama, protect their peace, and keep their circle calm and small. They've learned that quiet nights, clear minds, and good energy matter more than noise, chaos, or being everywhere. Peace is their priority and it actually shows physically and spiritually.
My girl and I had a heated argument, and she said something that stuck with me:
"Getting mad at me for telling you what's bothering me is so immature. Instead of asking where you went wrong or how to fix it, you flip the script and make it about me. Just because it's not that deep to you doesn't mean it's not serious to me."
That hit me hard.
I’m so blessed. God keeps pouring into my life in ways I could’ve never imagined. Every moment I’m filled with gratitude and peace. I thank Him for helping me grow, align, and become the best version of myself, so I could fully receive the blessings He’s placed over my life.