the person you marry might one day have to help you shower, feed you when you’re weak, or comfort you when you’ve lost someone you love. please understand the weight of that choice.
If a man is destined for you, God will soften his heart in your favor. You will not have to plead, and you will not have to sacrifice yourself to be seen as worthy. Love ordained by God will meet you where you stand.
Acts of service men are dangerously attractive.
fixing problems, making sure you have eaten, charging your phone, carrying your things... that’s romance to me.
someone on threads said, “the female bird doesnt explain to the male bird what he needs to do to impress her, she just leaves when he fails.” i think about that a lot.
Please date someone who actually wants to experience life with you. Not just dinner & sex. I’m taking Museums, cooking classes, festivals, pottery, concerts, bookstores, road trips, random adventures.. EVERYTHING.
Do not marry the “I’m sorry to hear that” and “that’s crazy” type of niggas. Marry the nigga who says, “Where are you? I’ll come get you. I got you. Let’s fix it. I’m on my way. How much? Let me make a call. It’s handled. How can I show up for you best?”
y’all think being a provider starts & ends with money 😭 baby money can pay bills, it cannot provide emotional safety, leadership, consideration or consistency.
"you're too picky"
His morals will raise my children. His hands will protect my home. His heart will nurture mine when I'm hurting.
You’re not picky enough
men who don’t harm women aren’t special. Men who don’t cheat aren’t exceptional. Treating women as equals isn’t heroic. Cooking and caring for their own kids isn’t “help,” it’s responsibility. This is the baseline stop applauding men for the bare minimum.
i’m sorry I am a traditional woman when it comes to certain things..…i firmly believe that a man is supposed to chase the woman, court her, spoil her, love her more....anything outside of that is weird.