@ainunnajib@mnadielmadani7 Gak nyangka orang yang saya nilai cerdas dan pernah saya kagumi, bisa nulis pendapatan bersifat generalize begini. May Allah help me to understand u better.
How many people should you date before settling down? How many apartments should you tour before signing a lease? There's an abundance of options and it can get overwhelming. So I asked math. The answer is the 37% rule. (1/3)
solving the loneliness crisis is:
> get off your phone
> challenge yourself to talk to strangers - at coffee shops, events, literally anywhere
> prioritize friendship like you do exercise - it requires maintenance and investment
> find communities & groups you want to be a part of
> when you vibe with someone, ask to hang - don't wait for them to initiate
> host gatherings in your area (even just 4 people for dinner counts!)
> ask follow-up questions, remember the details, be vulnerable
> don't take rejection personally - people may be busy or have different schedules
> heal your own relationship to rejection, putting yourself out there - anything that gets in the way of you connecting
solving loneliness systemically is hard, but you CAN solve YOUR loneliness
you got it!!!