Retired Hardgirl

Dreamer. DevOps Engineer. Aspiring Humanitarian. HER.

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@Blocboy_GT Temporary**
Temporal means something completely different.

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

Even if it’s true , what’s wrong with dinner and flowers?

[Raven @Rah_ven]

Men want you to accept less so bad. Now women only want dinner and flowers because they saw it on instagram. Please.

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

Thank God for your Dad

[JANE @jannygel]

No lies ooo
I experienced this and ran😂😂😂😂
I got a job that will pay me more than what I was earning and he told me to stay and not take the new job. Mumu mi accepted because I wanted to be a loyal fiancée 😂😂.
One day my dad called me and asked about my job search and I told him I got a job but my fiancé said I should not take it😂😂
My dad asked me if it was my fiance who sent me to school 😂😂, I called the HR and told him I accepted the offer😂😂. When he got to know that I accepted the offer, he said I was not submissive😂😂
He served me breakfast the day I got qualified as a chartered accountan because he failed all the papers he wrote at the skills level😂😂😂

This guy said I was moving faster than him 😂😂😂, to think he was an accountant and I was building my life around him. I was already thinking we would have an amazing career and have a firm in future 😂😂😂.

As an ambitious woman, shine your eyes well oooo, any man that won't support your dream, run ooo and also make sure you are a supportive woman too

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@xo_veeky_ You shall succeed nne

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

i've tried and tried

[Sole Woyinka @_littlehuman_]

There is a type of lock-in that you cannot do in Nigeria.

Is it with 4 hours of electricity? Lol.

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@Shizuo85 lets do something about it? i got dreams

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

Everyday I understand better and better that it doesn’t matter how reasonable what you say is, what matters to a certain demographic is that the person saying it dares to have voice/choice.

[Lola @lolitadiariess]

this might sound superficial or elitist, but i genuinely cannot see myself dating a man without a university degree. i’m about to earn my second bachelor’s degree and i’m getting a masters after this. i want a man whose education matches or surpasses mine.

higher education has always been deeply valued in my family, and it’s a standard i intend to carry into the family i build. i don’t think it’s unreasonable to want a man who has pursued the same level of education i have, if not more.

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@Trevornoah Best way it has ever been put😂

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@xo_veeky_ You follow this too?!!

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@thepreciouseun @andy_ijeh

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@Shizuo85 Tuff🔥

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@MadMudokolo 😂😂😂

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

Everyone is conveniently missing the last paragraph. This is a very good mother.

[Natalia Bower @NataliaBower100]

My husband makes 500k-750k. We own our house outright. We have no debt. My kids college funds are done. I still work. I have never had any desire not to, though I have worked from home for the entirety of my kids lives.

I don’t like early childcare. It’s very tedious, isolating, frustrating, boring. I simply have no desire to do it for more than 6 hours a day. After every weekend, I am glad Monday is coming because I don’t have to mind small kids for the entire day.

I would quit my job to homeschool my children age 5+, but I do not want to deal with them all day every day when they are 4 and under.

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

Glad it wasn’t just me who thought she didn’t say anything unusual.

[Cartoons Hate Her! @CartoonsHateHer]

99% of the hate here is because her husband makes over $500k a year. Otherwise nothing she said is even remotely unusual (and I say this as someone who loves the early childhood stage and is home all day)

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@Shizuo85 Happy birthday once again 🤩

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

He’s the best thing that has ever happened to her❤️💐

[dom @dearooz]

new load-bearing internet comment just dropped

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

@Shizuo85 Sadly no, light situation worsened so bad

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

I’m using all my money to buy fuel💔

[Retired Hardgirl @adadefined]

Or maybe because they like the subject area and want to excel in the field while earning a living. You kinda still made it about men instead of that.

[Diane Yap @RealDianeYap]

Women aren’t getting degrees and good jobs to attract men. They know men don’t care and don’t find degrees or jobs sexy.

They’re doing so to support themselves so they don’t have to put up with a man who doesn’t spark joy just because they need someone to provide.