Gentlemen, when someone misbehaves, do not react so angrily that your response overshadows the initial misbehaviour and now becomes the issue.
Don’t end up being the one needing to apologise when you were initially the victim of bad behaviour.
Be clear that you will not accept or tolerate the misbehaviour, but be measured in how you express your disapproval. This is especially important when you are in a position of authority over the other person. It is also especially important in your relationship with your woman.
I am Ezemmuo. I know things.
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Roads can wait. Buildings can wait. Airports can wait. Education cannot.
The road we fail to build today can still be built tomorrow. The airport that was delayed this year may still serve future generations. But the child pushed out of school by policy failure is often lost forever.
Every year, one of Nigeria's roughly 15 million out-of-school children loses a narrow window that may never reopen. When reforms eventually come, they benefit a different cohort, not the child already left behind.
That is why yesterday's National Stakeholders Meeting on the National Education Data Infrastructure, led by the Honourable Minister of Education, Tunji Alausa, struck me as profoundly consequential. In many ways, it may become one of the most important national infrastructure projects Nigeria has undertaken in recent years.
Data from all states were available on the portal, from school enrollment to the state of physical infrastructure to the student-teacher ratio. A mind-boggling quantum of data, made easy to understand, compare, and drive policy.
The Nigeria Education Management Information System, designed by Ernst & Young, the company that developed a similar system in India, is a national treasure: robust yet simple.
Sitting in that room, I watched evidence do what argument alone often cannot. Two figures stayed with me.
The first was the gap between primary school enrolment and junior secondary enrolment. The drop is so wide that I found myself asking the obvious question: what happened to those children?
Where did they go between Primary Six and JSS One? A generation appears to thin out between those two rungs, and we owe ourselves an honest answer.
The second was the composition of JAMB candidates: fresh entrants versus repeat candidates. The ratio revealed an admission bottleneck I had not fully grasped.
Too many qualified young Nigerians are queuing behind the same narrow gate, year after year. Suddenly, the Minister's policy direction on easing admission bottlenecks, which I had instinctively questioned, began to make sense to me.
That is the power of credible, real-time data. It does not merely inform policy; it humbles assumptions.
I am grateful to be contributing my own quota through the Nigeria Research and Education Network (NgREN). We have committed to delivering connectivity and digital services to tertiary institutions this year, and to extending similar infrastructure to secondary schools in 2027.
What is happening in education may not yet dominate the headlines, but something important is taking shape quietly beneath the surface. Evidence is beginning to replace assertion. Data is starting to shape decisions.
The question on my mind:
If evidence can transform education governance, when will the rest of the government follow?
Osita Chidoka
15 May 2026
There is a sacrifice many fathers make that people rarely talk about enough.
In many homes, fathers are often seen as the strict or harsh parent, but most times, it comes from a place of deep love, responsibility, and the desire to shape their children into better human beings. While the mother is often viewed as the soft landing, the comfort zone, or the safe haven, the father usually carries the burden of discipline, correction, and structure.
Because of this, many children naturally grow closer to their mothers and sometimes misunderstand their fathers. They see the warmth of one parent but fail to understand the silent pressure carried by the other.
A father says “no” not always because he enjoys being difficult, but because he understands consequences, dangers, and the realities of life ahead. The strictness many children resent while growing up is often the same thing that later builds discipline, resilience, responsibility, and character in them.
Sometimes, even in casual moments, mothers unknowingly strengthen this image by saying things like, “I will report you to your father,” or “Wait until your father comes back.” Over time, the child begins to associate the father with fear, punishment, and harshness, while seeing the mother as the only source of comfort.
But what many children do not realize is that some fathers sacrifice emotional closeness so their children can grow with direction. Some fathers carry the role of being misunderstood today so their children can become better tomorrow.
Sadly, fathers are not always expressive with emotions. Many were raised to provide, protect, and endure quietly. So instead of explaining their love softly, they express it through responsibility, sacrifice, correction, long work hours, and silent worries.
As children grow older, many eventually realize that behind that stern face was a man fighting pressure, responsibilities, fears, and exhaustion, yet still trying his best to raise them well.
Not every strict father is wicked.
Some are simply carrying love in the hardest form possible.
God bless every responsible fathers.🙏🏽
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14 May 2026
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