Later in life, she criticized her husband (rightly) as a hypocrite, and yet as a genius of her own tending. His work and fame was - in her opinion - made possible on the back of her intellectual sacrifice and thankless menial labor.
Reading about Leo Tolstoy's wife Sophia, and I think she deserves more attention:
Sophia loved Leo beyond the point of an obsession. She had 13 babies with him. 5 died. I'm reading her diary from early in her marriage, and the entries are tragic.
they should make a version of socializing that doesn’t make you feel like you’re still the weird 9 year old kid that doesn’t know why she’s not normal like the other kids