Ladies, I beg of you. Outsource your house chores if you can. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, anything at all. There’s no award for suffering. The term “wife material” is more of an insult than a compliment.
An avoidant person can miss you deeply and still struggle to reach out. They can think about you every day and still convince themselves that staying silent is the better choice. Feelings and actions don't always move together when someone is afraid of emotional vulnerability
This is why I’m against telling ppl they were treated badly bc “they just didn’t like you” or “you weren’t the one” bc so many ppl are fighting inner demons that aren’t your issue lol, and even if they don’t like you acting immaturely about it, is still their problem
Some people don't hurt you with what they say. They hurt you with what they withhold. The apology that never comes. The effort that quietly disappears once they've secured your loyalty.
Why can’t we just love and be loved without all the lying and manipulation and heartbreak like just be good people 😭 relationships are so exhausting and terrifying these days
Personally, one of the worst feeling is watching the only person you genuinely enjoy talking to, starts replying with dryer texts, seems more distant and uninterested