men saying, “all you had to do was ask & i would’ve done it” is basically admitting you were waiting to be led. 😩 baby, that’s not leadership that’s following instructions. 😭😭
Underrated life advice: get better at recovering fast. You're going to fail. You're going to get rejected. Make bad calls. Lose money. Embarrass yourself. Whatever it is, the goal is shrinking the gap between falling down and getting back up. Master the art of starting over.
Dating to marry will make you realize that the "plenty of fish in the sea" narrative is false. alot of people are really not worth that level of intimacy.
I’m not a big fan of people not knowing how to let me go. It doesn’t do anything for my ego and I don’t find it flattering. It’s actually annoying as fuck.. especially when I know the intentions behind reaching out aren’t good
Someone once said, if you spend all day at a fish market, you'll leave smelling like fish even if you didn't touch one. But if you spend your day in a perfume shop, you'll leave smelling good even if you didn't buy anything. Your environment always rubs off on you. Spend time around people who complain. You'll see negativity everywhere, spend time around people who make excuses. You'll never change, but spend it with people of action, you'll feel inspired to move. Spend it with people of gratitude. You'll see blessings everywhere. The scent of your environment will always follow you.