Debola

In love with life's little details

[Ọgá HR: the african workforce guy 🇳🇬|🇷🇼 @MeetJMB]

a motion to include pads in toilets in all offices in Africa for women.

[Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri @ronkecarew]

Once you have a salaried job or any stable source of income or even a side hustle giving you any steady income.

You must Read or Listen to the Book Richest Man in Babylon. Do it more than once, every time you read theirs always something to learn.

It's free on youtube, take notes, implement the knowledge, act on it.
It was very useful for me in my early days and I still use it till today. Every Single mentee of mine is mandated to READ AND implement.
I am sharing with you, it's a cheat code for people from our kind of background.

So get to work, I wish you God's speed and all the best

[kiki ,The Clothing Vendor @SauceKiki]

“He knows where Home is”
“Even if you’re going to cheat, please use protection”
“You can cheat so far you are not doing it to my face”

Words Of A MadWoman.

[rea💕 @ellaaaaaarrr]

''Your pant line is showing''
Make I gum the pad for chest???

[Ennieee🤎 @Sassyennie_1]

"My run away wife"
lya e lo ma run away

[maMvelase ❤️ @Nocylove123]

I swear the air gets heavier around 7 pm on Sundays. You can feel the Microsoft Teams energy approaching.

['Denike Danjuma @DeNiike_]

We need to go back to Ankara as Aso ebi.

Colourful . Cheap . Wearable after

[Wolfie 🐺 @TheIgboWolf]

So we have rain makers but not moon blockers?

What's this Thursday and Friday I am hearing.

[Debola @aduke_aduke]

I have been seeing many posts saying 2027 elections cannot happen during Ramadan. Ramadan has never stopped us from working or carrying out daily responsibilities.
Civic duties should not be different.

[Debola @aduke_aduke]

@Abidoye_Zainab I love ittttttttt.

[Debola @aduke_aduke]

@SAMUEL_OIM @Microsoft365 @Microsoft365

[Fadeelah (Mrs.) @The_Fadeelah]

This question assumes the struggle is ignorance, when often, it’s emotion. Islam never demanded that women be emotionless; it acknowledged jealousy, fear, and pain as human.

The Quran permitted polygamy, of course, but it didn’t romanticize it. Allah immediately warned: “If you fear you cannot be just, then marry only one.” (Qur’an 4:3) And then reminded us how hard that justice truly is (Qur’an 4:129).

Even among the Mothers of the Believers; jealousy existed. Aisha (RA) felt it. Other wives felt it. The Prophet (s.a.w) didn’t dismiss their feelings; he managed them with gentleness, reassurance, and responsibility.

Acceptance in Islam is not silence. It’s not pretending pain doesn’t exist. It’s trusting Allah’s wisdom while being honest about the heart.

A woman struggling with the idea of a second wife isn’t rejecting her Rabb or Islam; she’s navigating the weight of love, fear, and dignity.

Islam definitely allowed polygamy. It also protected women’s emotions, rights, and consent. Faith isn’t proven by how little we feel, but by how sincerely we carry what we feel back to Allah.

[eisha 🍒 @meishato]

one of my favorite games to play is “is my headache from dehydration, caffeine withdrawal, lack of proper nutrition, my ponytail, stress, lack of sleep, not wearing my glasses or brain tumor?”

[Hafsah❤️ @RufaiHafsat1]

Piggyvest ate with the “riba free” option.

[Debola @aduke_aduke]

Sometimes I wonder if you people read the Quran at all. Must you talk about people's culture and religion??????

[Muslims Connect @muslimsconnect0]

EYO ISN’T JUST A CARNIVAL OR TOURIST EVENT

Shayṭān often trivializes major sins by masking them with harmless names or presenting them as mere cultural displays.

Eyo is not just another carnival or tourist attraction — it is an act of kufr, and any Muslim who knowingly partakes in it engages in something that takes them outside the fold of Islām.

Its entire purpose is rooted in ancestor and deity worship. The festival is dedicated to honoring spirits, venerating ancestors, and paying homage to the reigning Oba. Its central deity, Adamu Orisha, traces its origin to the Ibefun/Iperu region.

The major Eyo groups have their own conclaves (shrines) — the Awe. Many of these are only opened after ritual sacrifices have been performed.

So why would any Muslim who fears Jahannam (Hellfire) involve himself or herself in such a practice?

Even the rules during the parade make it clear that it is incompatible with Islamic teachings. Men and women are forbidden from wearing headgear; your hair must be uncovered. How can a conscious Muslim woman participate without directly violating Allah’s command regarding the ḥijāb?

This festival is not just entertainment. So, O believing men and women:

“Enter into Islam wholeheartedly, and do not follow the footsteps of Shayṭān. Surely he is your sworn enemy.”
(Al-Baqarah 2:208)

— Abu Muhsin

[Oyinlola Akindele @oyinakindele]

Nigeria is such a place. 😅 Someone said she removed birth control and you’re asking why she needs birth control when she’s not married.

Then people now started explaining how sex isn’t the only reason for birth control.

But what if it is for sex? Are you a child? Do we need to draw it for you?

Because why are you pretending like majority of single people who are in relationships don’t have sex?

[Lola Okunrin @lollypeezle]

Kote fish is not meant for human consumption. It tastes like wood 😫

[Joke @jastrup7]

You better finish school, find a job and start earning money before you do motherhood. Them no Dey tell person.

[TBillion @Tbillion40]

Won de ni pe baba iya won o ni fans mo, won ni shori re #OlamideinLondon

[ODINAKA. El Toro. @TheAjibolaGrey]

Olamide say “won de ni baba iya won o ni fans mo”