my mom told me the difference btwn compromise and settling is you have to still be getting what you want when you compromise. it’s a shared win. settling is being okay with not getting what you want and that’s self betrayal.
@Vickcantmiss A lot of y'all don't 9-5 correctly, then complain about it being too stressful. The 9 isn't supposed to be when you wake up, it's supposed to be a few hours into your day, then you work, then you have a few hours afterwards to relax. Instead you wake up and go to work miserable.
She was spitting because the way these men do not be FUN! It’s like they meet you and see how fun you are and want to squash that entirely. No. I need fun!