Once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. Because they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. People rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.
I don't accept people treating me weirdly when they're "going through something" because when I'm going through something I'm still nice and I'm still kind and I don't feel like that's an excuse to treat people like shit.
I will never reconcile with anyone who deliberately went out their way to sabotage or hurt me in anyway. This can be family, friends, associates, whoever. Once you show me who you are, I can't unsee it.
I saw a video that said having a naturally intimidating aura is exhausting because people start competing with you for no reason while you’re literally just breathing. I’ve never felt so seen.
The real glow up is emotional control. It's not in the gym mirror, or the new outfit. It's when you stop reacting to every little thing that tries to piss you off. When someone's words don't shake your peace and silence becomes more powerful than arguing. That's real growth.
I’m so glad I don’t have a victim mindset. My life never stops because of what someone did to me, what didn’t work out, or my upbringing not being the best always. I always get up and continue to give my best.
at this age i can’t associate with anyone who lacks integrity or accountability. i give grace because nobody is perfect, but a lack of principles is something i will never overlook.
Certain females you just will not catch me going back & forth with, Idc how much shade is being thrown… It’s a difference between beef & someone just desperate for your attention! Don’t even be on my level, it be outta jealousy… Not even worth my attention.
If only you knew the reward for your sabr, you wouldn’t mind waiting all your life. If only you knew the reason why you haven’t been blessed with certain things in your life yet, you would be happy not having them right now. Everything is by the will of Allah. So, trust and sabr!