when you care for someone. you do your best to celebrate them in a way they understand. i’m learning people need love with fire some days and an ocean the next. with respect, we are allowed to grow + evolve from what need. and if you care, you adjust to that. can call it love.
be careful of the ones who constantly see darkness in you despite all of your light. the ones who constantly make you feel like you can never do right. the ones opinionated about you without understanding you. never let anyone’s perception of you poison your intentions.
i get cheap haircuts and today i got a white guy who got pissy when i asked him if he knew how to cut asian hair. i wasn’t even rude about it, but lots of stylists don’t know asian hair. i told him i had to cuz i wasn’t risking it