One thing I finally accepted is I’M NOT OBLIGATED TO. I don’t have to overextend myself. I don’t have to swallow my pride and be the bigger person every time. I don’t have to repair what I didn’t damage. I don’t have to check on people who don’t check on me. I don’t have to sacrifice my peace trying to please everybody.
I spent years overgiving in friendships & relationships. I was always the one checking in, showing love, making sure everybody was good & I forgot about me. Now I just want to be alone and focus on myself. I’m learning to pour into me the way I used to pour into everybody else.
This guy knew he wanted to propose to his gf on the ice at Rockefeller Center but she couldn’t skate so he spent months teaching her so that he could plan this moment for them 🥺🥺🥺🥺
I’m big on reconciliation if there’s mutual respect, changed behaviour and everyone is willing to do the work so everyone’s needs are met. I really don’t believe in pride getting in the way of collaboration, opportunity, friendship or love if it could go in the right direction
The way TikTok has helped me over the past few months is wild. I’m so thankful to the random people who post content that feels super specific to what I’m going through.
Thank you to this woman. I watched this video several times this week. Posting in case it helps someone else