"sorry" Works when a mistake is made but not when trust is broken. So in relationships, make mistakes but never break trust. Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting and trusting again is almost impossible.
I love valentine’s day like it’s objectively our cutest holiday.. a whole day about love? and everything is pink and red and heart shaped? cheap flowers and candy for all? valentine’s day they could never make me hate u!!
I changed.
I forgave.
I gave chance(s).
I let my guard down.
I loved without limits.
I didn’t give up.
I stuck through everything.
I was understanding of who and where they were.
It got me nothing. It left me broken, confused with questions.
Always do what’s best for you.
it’s a man’s job to set the tone in a relationship. a woman feeds off of his energy. that’s why showing up for her and being consistent is important. she can’t feel safe with you if you ain’t leading properly.
The smarter you are, the more self aware and evolved you are, the more likely you are to be single because it becomes almost impossible for you to tolerate rubbish and your boundaries become non negotiable.
I realized I had to let him go.. he was unbothered watching me lose my mind over his destructive behaviors. I lost myself & realized I was fighting for something that was destroying me. The truth is that he’s broken & I wasn’t meant to fix or force him to get his shıt together.
EVERYBODY WANNA BE IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR MONTHS & YEARS BUT Y'ALL AIN'T READY FOR THEM NIGHTS WHEN Y'ALL ARGUING & GOING DAYS WITHOUT TALKING TO EACH OTHER, COMMUNICATION GOING WRONG, YOU BOTH ASSUMING AND ACCUSING EACH OTHER OF THINGS YOU HAD NO INTENTION ON DOING.
I ain’t even gonna lie sometimes I be looking at myself like who are you anymore”, because I feel so lost. I’m the funniest, happiest person you’re ever gonna meet, but I’m also fighting for my life against my own mind sometimes.
it’s understandable that you need your “me” time but understand, there is an amount of isolation you can take that pushes people away. not everyone that you value and want in your life will be here when you come back months later. especially if they were close to you.
won’t date again for a couple yrs, just hate being so in love and getting so comfortable wit someone then have to move on. they know my body, my secrets & all about me, don’t like that. Love is actually terrifying tbh. You don’t know what’s real & what’s fake anymore, I’m cool…