it’s actually very unhealthy to tell your kids that they have to love/respect a family member no matter what they do/say to them. You’re just teaching them to have no boundaries and it will show in their friendships and relationships later on.
I think my biggest pet peeve is inconsideration. It literally drives me insane to come across someone with no regard for anyone else outside of themselves.
i think it’s valid that you want your lover to make you feel special. i can totally see why seeing them give other people the same extravagant compliments they give to you can take away some of the novelty and sacredness of their compliments. like oh this for everybody? damn.
i deserve all of the good things that are happening to me and are going to happen to me. i have worked extremely hard to be here and i am beyond worthy of the success that is headed my way. i lead with kindness and gratitude everyday.
the scariest part of dating is that mfs will really be out here acting like you're their everything, like legit don't play about you, just to be doing sneaky shit behind your back. it's like how do you differentiate when it's real and genuine and when it's just to manipulate you?
after Adam Levine cheating on his wife let’s remember & normalize the fact that cheating was never about a woman’s lack of beauty, worth or anything for that matter but instead a man’s abundance of insecurities, unworthiness & desperation. don’t let men manipulate that reality
if it hurts, if it crosses your mind and it brings you back to dark place, if it makes you sad, it's valid. idgaf how big or small it is, those feelings are real. give them the space to be acknowledged.