But the right connection doesn’t collapse because of one imperfect moment.
It requires two people equally choosing.
If it was fragile enough to fall apart that easily, it was not stable enough to hold you long-term.
Sex work, pornography, OF and prostitution is not empowering, yes it may pay your bills but your actually part a of a large system that oppresses and misrepresents and mistreats women.
date sweet men. men who are calm. men who can articulate themselves. men who are soft spoken. men who are patient with you. men who respect both you and themselves . men who are kind to you. men that are gentle. men who have self control.
someone taking the time to explain how they are feeling hurt as a result of our actions means they value our presence in their life. they’re giving us a chance to show up in a way that is comfortable for both parties. when people stop explaining to us how they feel, they’ll exit.
having an ex best friend is such a specifically heartbreaking experience because it was possibly longest relationship you were ever in. and then they......turn into an actual stranger? and at one point they called you 17x a day. like, i know your brother's birthday still.