10-year-old: I'm watching all the Harry Potter movies.
Me: Do you really have that much free time?
10: I don't have any free time. I'm watching all the Harry Potter movies.
Love is not watching someone slap someone repeatedly and not scolding the abuser. You speak up and stop it not only for the sake of the abused but for the sake of the soul of the abuser. Love is not just peaceable quietude that ignores abuse hoping it will stop if we’re all nice.