So my aunt is having this condition that requires surgery and she's been very existential lately (the thing is I've been sorta her 'confidante' and kind of been parentified by her since I was a teen since she has broken marriage and is kind of the family's black sheep)
@SSPMAX55 Yeah, I've been saving up to get some attachment therapy someday. It's been an ongoing thing for me for nearly a decade atp. Now I just wanted the surgery to come soon and turn out successful so my aunt can breathe easy so I don't have to deal w/ this anymore
So my aunt is having this condition that requires surgery and she's been very existential lately (the thing is I've been sorta her 'confidante' and kind of been parentified by her since I was a teen since she has broken marriage and is kind of the family's black sheep)
Idk if anyone would care abt this but this had been smth buzzing in my head this past month since I ended up absorbing her stress too and it's been really interfering with my daily life...
-her education and stuff and it had been stressing me out too (I've been telling her she'll be fine) but like...it's tiring me out for always being the moral support for an adult since I was underage when I'm also currently trying to heal from my own childhood trauma
@wilthethrill_ Yeah, I'd been staying away from this acc mostly because a huge reason I was mostly active here before was for my fandom projects with Mel. And I felt like staying away for awhile was better for my psyche (and it did) I felt bad for neglecting this acc though