It’s not about whether or not you like yourself. It’s about acknowledging the real systems that stop everyone from receiving and giving love, care, and respect. These are all things controlled by desirability politics.
It’s the job of every black ontz ontz lover to introduce every black person to ghetto tech. Because the DJs and the Sets be black asf but the crowd…..mama
You may not like hearing this, but a lot of mental illnesses are not healed by being your authentic self. They're healed by acting like someone who's healthy in the way you aren't. It doesn't feel good. You don't fix society. You do it by being strong when you don't feel like it
@Favwontmiss@lisathebeauty1 It’s not about whether the show is good. It’s about whether my brain suddenly decides at 2:17 AM on a Tuesday that this is now the only thing I care about
a bus every 6-7 minutes is the entire secret of good transit. no schedule, no app, you just show up. the kids have been screaming the answer at us for over a year. six seveeen. headways. they're talking about headways
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.