Portharcourt queer man

A safe space for queer people, feel free .

[Xavier @Amazing80719]

What’s your experience with a feminine top?

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Why do girls feels so comfortable around gay guys?

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Who are you in this body? 😂😂😂😂

[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

I’ve never stained because I always observe myself.

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Dear top guys stop being màd at your btm when they mistakenly stain your bed sheets, instead show them more love ❤️

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[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

I can’t wash anyone’s clothes ooooh

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Is it right for a top to persuade his btm to wash his clothes?

[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

Is it contagious?

[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

@grok what kind of sickness is this and what’s the possible solution?

[Xavier @Amazing80719]

The hidden truth is that gays love and serves God more, they made up your choir team, ushering unite and so on. We love God and he loves us more.

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The volatility king 👑

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Who even came up with this stat?

What do you think?

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And I’ve been enjoying my single life 😂😂😂😂

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Which are you going for?

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Off to see my man 👨

[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

@porshey555 APC will get HBP ooooooh

[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

I was arrested 2019 😭😭

[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

Someone just said that As a Man, if you have never been arrested by the police, You are Gay. 😁

[Xavier @Amazing80719]

Guys, something really serious landed in my DMs today, and honestly, this one stayed with me.

A married man from Birmingham reached out to me this afternoon.

He’s a pastor.

For obvious reasons, I won’t mention his name, church, or anything that could identify him.

He told me he’s been following my posts for some time and appreciates the conversations I’ve been having around the LGBTQ+ community.

Then he told me something he’s apparently kept to himself for years.

He is queer.

He told me that he’s never genuinely felt romantically or sexually attracted to women.

But because of his family, his faith, his congregation and the expectations placed on him, he eventually got married.

He’s been married for around five years.

They have a three-year-old daughter.

And this is where things get heartbreaking.

He entered the marriage believing that, with enough prayer, fasting and faith, his feelings would eventually change.

He prayed.

He fasted.

He preached.

He counselled other people.

He prayed for other people going through difficult situations.

But when it came to himself, he said he felt completely lost.

He genuinely believed that getting married and becoming a pastor would somehow make his feelings disappear.

They didn’t.

Now his wife has started noticing that something is wrong.

He says they haven’t been intimate for a very long time. Whenever she tries to get close to him, he makes excuses because he doesn’t know how to explain what he’s actually going through.

And now he says he’s exhausted.

Exhausted from pretending.

Exhausted from hiding.

Exhausted from feeling like he’s letting his wife down.

And terrified of what telling the truth could mean for his marriage, his daughter, his church and his entire life.

So I’m bringing this here because I genuinely want people to give him some thoughtful advice.

What should he do?

Should he continue hiding his sexuality because of his daughter and his position as a pastor?

Should he sit down with his wife and tell her the truth?

How can he be honest about his sexuality while protecting his child from unnecessary hurt?

And if you’ve experienced something similar — particularly if you entered a heterosexual marriage because of family, religion or social pressure — what would you tell him?

Because behind this story is a real person.

Someone’s husband.

Someone’s father.

Someone’s pastor.

And someone who seems to have spent years trying to live a life that doesn’t reflect how he actually feels.

Please, if you comment, do it with compassion.

No abuse.

No mockery.

No “you should have known better.”

Just honest advice.

Because somewhere out there, someone else may be living exactly the same life in silence.

And one thoughtful comment might help him realise that he isn’t the only person who has ever found themselves in this situation.

[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

@Qunicybee lol 😂

[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

When two btm are fighting for one preeeeq 😂

[Portharcourt queer man @amazing24302]

@HottestDaddy247 Very shameful 😂😂😂